More From This Resource Center. In this study, the young men wanted anal sex because they want to impress other young men, very few young men and women actually ended up liking it and both young men and young women expected women to hate it. Even in what researchers deemed "caring, communicative" relationships, men seemed to push anal sex on a partner despite believing it will hurt her. Reasons for Anal Sex 1 Competition Between Men One of the main reasons for anal sex, according to the study, was not heterosexual preference, but homosocial pressure. Alicia also self-described her sexual drive much differently from other female participants, self-identifying as very sexually driven. Women often mentioned "repeated, emphatic requests" from men.
I'd initiate it more. Follow Mathew on Twitter: British researchers conducted a longitudinal study a study that follows people over time that asked U. When condoms were used, it was for basic hygiene, not STI prevention; "so you don't get shit on your dick," as one participant noted. In this study, the young men wanted anal sex because they want to impress other young men, very few young men and women actually ended up liking it and both young men and young women expected women to hate it. Both men and women brought up instances of accidental "slips" during vaginal intercourse that would end up with anal penetration, and researchers pointed out that "owing to the nature of the data -- we rely on reports at interview -- it is difficult to assess the extent to which events described as 'slips' were genuinely unintentional. Instead, the researchers identified four key reasons for anal sex among teens. This participant -- identified as Alicia -- was the only woman researchers interviewed who described experiencing pleasure, including orgasm, from anal sex. The one female participant who described finding anal sex pleasurable had similar stories to other interviewees -- her boyfriend continually coerced her, he had once just "slipped in" -- but she was different in that she had expressed that she "was curious about it" and described how she subsequently came to enjoy anal sex, suggesting that her and her partner found a mutually satisfactory way to engage in the sex act. Male participants revealed the attitude of "every hole's a goal" regarding women, and that men would often tell their friends that they had had anal sex and considered it "something [they] do for a competition. Men who spoke about women who experienced pain often painted them as naive or flawed. The study paid particular attention to the pressures that teenage girls feel to practice anal sex. Some interviewees incorrectly stated that sexually transmitted infections STIs via anal sex was impossible, or less likely than with vaginal intercourse. The findings were published in the British Medical Journal. Because coercion around anal sex is the norm, "accidental penetration" has become a normal routine among men who want anal sex, as well. One participant said that if a woman said "no" after he put his finger in, he would keep trying. After interviewing teens who were 16 to 18 years old, and from diverse backgrounds, the researchers found that heterosexual anal sex among teens very rarely involved mutual exploration and sexual pleasure. How can we make sexual exploration and sexual pleasure the norm, rather than coercion and deception? Women often mentioned "repeated, emphatic requests" from men. Have you experienced any of these feelings around anal sex? Men described a "try it and see" approach where they would try anal penetration with their fingers or penis and hope that their female sexual partner would not stop them. More From This Resource Center. The researchers called for more sexual education not only around anal sex, but STI prevention education, as well. Mathew Rodriguez is the editorial project manager for TheBody. I quite like it because I think I quite like the feeling of him against my bum, like against the meat of your bum, like it's kind of cushiony. Reasons for Anal Sex 1 Competition Between Men One of the main reasons for anal sex, according to the study, was not heterosexual preference, but homosocial pressure.
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